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  • 5 Options for How to Use Your Imagination

    5 Options for How to Use Your Imagination

    Children, in certain ways, are much wiser than adults. Children understand the importance of playing and having fun. They are more accepting of themselves and others. And they know how powerful the imagination is. Somehow, somewhere, those wise practices and attitudes typically get lost during the transition from childhood to adulthood. What if you could…

  • Allow Your Greatness to Shine Through

    Allow Your Greatness to Shine Through

    Life is a dream that I’m awake for. Life is a pleasant dream come true. Yes, I choose to see life that way. I choose to see the good in everything, including the things that look to be horrific. For me, adopting that mindset makes the most sense. I’ve heard others, including David Bayer and…

  • Mapping the Future: Mike Dooley’s 3 Steps for Creating Change

    Mapping the Future: Mike Dooley’s 3 Steps for Creating Change

    I’ve been watching a webinar series by Mike Dooley. The previous post, “Miracles Happen Every Day. Here Are Some of Mine,” was me working through the first worksheet. The exercise there was to help me admit that miracles have happened in my life before and can keep on happening, too. The second worksheet is called…

  • Miracles Happen Every Day. Here Are Some of Mine

    Miracles Happen Every Day. Here Are Some of Mine

    I struggle with identifying miracles that have happened to me. I also struggle with doing personal development exercises, including this one from a Mike Dooley webinar. “What’s your miraculous story? When have you experienced a transformation that completely took you by surprise or wildly exceeded your expectations – a miracle … sparked by a situation or event…

  • Child-free by Choice. Another Option to Go With in Life

    Child-free by Choice. Another Option to Go With in Life

    In my previous post, “Pollock Clinics Vasectomy Review: Permanent Birth Control for Men,” I talked about my vasectomy experience and recommended that any man who wants to get a vasectomy either go to Pollock Clinics or somewhere else that uses the same method. I have found that people who want to have children tend to put…

  • Pollock Clinics Vasectomy Review: Permanent Birth Control for Men

    Pollock Clinics Vasectomy Review: Permanent Birth Control for Men

    I wouldn’t advise that every man get a vasectomy. Still, there are certain situations where it is helpful, like when a man knows he doesn’t want to have any biological children or any more biological children. I got a vasectomy nearly two years ago, and it’s the best investment I’ve ever made. I’ll give you…

  • Life’s Golden Buckets Book Review: Kieron Sweeney’s Budgeting Habit

    Life’s Golden Buckets Book Review: Kieron Sweeney’s Budgeting Habit

    This post contains affiliate link(s). An affiliate link means I may earn advertising or referral fees if you purchase through my link. At a weekend event, I saw Kieron Sweeney speak in person many years ago. It was an enjoyable experience. He was funny and very informative. He made light of the fact that some…

  • Our Common Bond Speaks Forth and Cries Out to Be Remembered

    Our Common Bond Speaks Forth and Cries Out to Be Remembered

    What is enlightenment? Is it sustainable? And can these questions even be answered in this lifetime? Sometimes, there are no easy answers. Sometimes, the strength is found in the struggling. Thrown into the world of adult problems, life can look a lot more complex and difficult than back when you and I were children. Remember…

  • What Your Scars Say about You

    What Your Scars Say about You

    See this scar on my left wrist? That’s from when my front teeth got knocked out. I scraped my wrist when I landed on the pavement. And this scar on my left knee? That’s from when I fell and scraped my knee on gravel as a boy. I had to take the pieces of gravel out…

  • How to Apply Learned Optimism: A Sample Disputation Record

    How to Apply Learned Optimism: A Sample Disputation Record

    In a previous post, I reviewed the “Learned Optimism” book by Martin Seligman, the father of positive psychology. I explained what learned optimism is, and I recommend you go to the review to familiarize yourself with the concept and what’s involved in applying it. ==> Click here to read my review of the “Learned Optimism” book. <==…

  • Life Has No Meaning Except What I Give It. It’s a Freeing Limit

    Life Has No Meaning Except What I Give It. It’s a Freeing Limit

    I don’t talk much, so it helps to have a healthy outlet of some kind. Enter writing. Writing is a very important factor in my mental health. I don’t know what I would do without it. Writing allows me the chance to organize my thoughts and express them in a clearer way than I’ve typically…

  • Learned Optimism Book Review: Martin Seligman’s ABCs of Flexible Optimism

    Learned Optimism Book Review: Martin Seligman’s ABCs of Flexible Optimism

    This post contains affiliate link(s). An affiliate link means I may earn advertising or referral fees if you purchase through my link. “Learned Optimism: How to Change Your Mind and Your Life” by Martin E.P. Seligman, Ph.D. explores the differences between optimists and pessimists, how those differences affect each of them, and how to be…